Sunday, March 2, 2008

Ok, Olivia is going thru this jealously stage right now and it's driving me nuts to say the least. She tells me how we talk to Logan better than her, everybody wants to see Logan and not her........etc. So, I am not perfect, but I dearly love both my children the same. It's hard to talk to Olivia the same way you talk to Logan, after all, he's not making messes, writing on my walls!!, and talking back to me. So i have tried to watch how i say things and what they sound like when they fly out of my mouth. She is right on some words, they don't sound very nice when i say them. I have tried to explain to her how I was the first born too and it's hard when your the oldest, but brother's are cool to have around. Well it seemed to work a little, hearing me and Rich both are first born's also. I don't remember being jealous of Jimmy, but then, I think I was so happy to have a brother, it didn't matter.

Olivia has constantly been visiting the nurse at school for everything........I hear voices in my head, my throat hurts, to I can't see nothing!! Yea, this is my kid. She has even tried to convince me she is seeing double!! So i got thinking on how this HAS to be a attention getter. So i am going to try to repair this, not like I don't spend time with Olivia, just Logan wants to hang on his mother's hip now and I'm sure that's not going well with her!!

So, if anyone has any suggestions, I am more than willing to listen!! I know this is normal for a older sibling, but it drives me nuts!!!!!!!!

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